E. and I had a third date when I came back from my vacation in Greece. The date was fine, we went to a Thai food festival, then an amusement park and later on to a film festival and watched a Rod Stewart concert. I like spending time with him, but when it grew late and he offered to take me home, I declined. I didn’t want to be in the car with him and then having an awkward goodbye situation.
I was not in the mood at all to kiss him. There is just no spark or chemistry between. He is funny and generous, which he also likes to point out. He told me five times on that evening that he is generous, which was true. He paid for everything except one plate of food.
But doesn’t talking about kind of ruining the effect? For me it was at least. It gave me the feeling he is only generous tonight because he wants something. As if he buys himself a kiss.
Anyway, I said goodbye to him at the festival and walked home from there. It was a warm night and it is safe to walk around alone.
Since then we are still in touch, he is calling and sending texts. Texting after midnight the day after our date, which is disrespectful in my book. More texts and question about when we see each other again. So far I have no time, but it might also be that I just don’t want to make time for him.
Will keep you posted!